Yesterday I went to see my therapist, (No, I am not mad!) I was however in need of some support. Something that as a carer I find in short supply.
I was talking about how my husbands disability effects the way I see myself and how exasperating this can be for me.
She said, ” If you do nothing, what will happen?”
“Well” I said, “obviously nothing and I will stay right where I am, pissed off, alone and even more pissed off!”
“What if you talk to your husband and tell him how you are feeling?” She said.
Of course she is right, which is why I go to see her. For her kind words, her wisdom and her ability to help me work through the undigested ‘peas and carrot’s’ of the crap that my life could be if I did not move with the times.
Paradoxicaly if I do nothing my husband will have to change, as he may find it difficult to manage without my support.
My point is; I have been told buy my local PM that things take time and legislation needs to be written, when in actual fact, in my opinion if the government took the bull by the horns (as I will when I discuss how I am feeling with my husband), forward movement will happen.
I have had some amazing responces from people who have brought my download. People who are taking the ‘bull by the horn’s’ and changing their destiny.
The simplicity of Rent2buy makes people sceptical, when in actual fact it is the simple things in life that make my life at times feel awesome!!!
Till next time
stay well
Jools x
